Personal Progression and Simple Psychology

Escaping From Those Inner Fears.

In an age when we are psychologically changing, due to the pole shift, we appear to be all over the place with our emotions, and these changes have certainly not escaped me personally.

 People can appear uncomfortable around me at a certain level, a spiritual level and I have noticed that in most cases, that they really are unaware they react in this way, or that they are even doing it.

They almost appear to squirm, and in a few cases, where the person has thought of himself or herself to be at a high spiritual level, without perhaps being there, I have created a very vitriolic reaction.

Jealousy is a funny thing.

None of us can understand it all, we all have faults, and we are supposed to be helping each other iron these out.

As someone who is a plain speaker I may open up some of the fears they would rather not recognise, allthough they know some of these fears is the true reality, and if I awaken those fears, or whatever truth it is, they resent what I have to say.

I do this inadvertently, but sometimes I do feel the need to speak out, and my intentions are often only to clear blockages by speaking frankly.

People often do not like hearing the truth, especially if it is something they are escaping from.

These fears can be seen by them as a judgment against them, and although I mean no harm, they see it as being intrusive, and prying into their consciousness of private life.

I do believe honesty is the best policy, in all things, and I myself have a lot to learn on this subject, but I can only write what I believe, even if I do not always stick to them myself.

As honest as we like to think we are, there are always degrees, and to be totally honest to oneself and others will in the process, naturally mean some heartache.

This procedure is also in the cleaning process a lot of us are undergoing, and it is like being stripped entirely, with all our faults being made blatantly clear to ourselves, so that we can learn, rebuild and improve and move on.

Allthough at the time, it seems so harsh, it is essential that we learn who we are, in order to improve, and therefore can only ever be seen as a positive process, but it has to have our consent, and it is always our choice as to whether we want to progress, or slow down or totally reject it.

Worrying Too Much.

One of the main problems, and I have been greatly at fault here myself, is we can take it all too seriously.

We have to keep a balance somewhere, between the material life and the spiritual.

One should not for now, let the spiritual completely rule, otherwise chaos will follow, as I have discovered to my own personal cost.

One must, however strongly we feel and believe in the spiritual, have to put up with those material conditions and people who are still materially thinking around us, and cope with whatever it or they chuck at us.

As we become more loving and caring in our attitude, we are being bombarded in things we see as totally unjust.

Unfortunately as we begin to see things more clearly, and see the wrongs and injustices for all in and of life, we become more intolerant or frustrated by others behaviour.

We simply have to accept this behaviour, and why not, we always did before, we should be used to it.

It may seem unfortunate, but the transition is difficult, and some are just picking up on it slower than others, and many will never understand the changes, and even in those who should know better, they may choose to reject it.

We all have loved the material life at some time with new gadgets and so on, and the ‘pleasures of ownership’ however false, are extremely hard to dislodge.

However, the main problem is in that we worry about others too much, and in turn worry too much.

Remember if they choose the material path, that is there choice, and beyond advising, there is little one can do, despite it being very difficult to not try and help them on a particular path.

It is not our job apparently, and for some people, the more we try and give guidance the further it is rejected.

We must learn not to worry, about others and ourselves and just accept and trust that the whole scenario will work out for the good of all, we can do no more.

Looking Forward and Not Back.

One important piece of advice I can give, is that we must learn to look forward and not to harp on things that have happened in the past.

The past is finished with, it has gone, and we will have learnt our lesson form it.

Also we will have encountered a lot of strange behaviour from others during the transition, both because of us, because of our changing, and towards us because of other people changing, and in many cases, both ways.

This is because most of those we were attracted to, we were attracted to because we were going through the same things, so it follows that they would have been going through similar changes at the same time.

Again, we must remember that those we are attracted to our likely to be mirrors of ourselves, and they will learn from us, as we will from them.

The one thing we seem very good at is holding grudges against certain people, even to those that we love dearly.

We are so quick to condemn certain people and often seem to miss the point, or the lesson that they are often trying to give us, even though they themselves do not realise the purpose either.

People have often entered my life, and departed almost as quickly, that have left me shaking my head in disbelief and amazement.

I have felt often, that I had something to learn form them, or the experience, but what it was I was supposed to get from it, has completely passed me by, or gone over my head.

I appear to have missed the point completely.

These people have often appeared at first to have had the same drive and intent, and appeared to have been going down a parallel path, spiritually.

However somewhere down the line, it all goes horribly wrong, and I believe it is often

a reaction to this closeness, that actually triggers it’s own downfall.

Often these trigger points, are not caused by major differences in thinking, but in the detail of thinking. It appears that although we can believe the same, and in the same thing, quite how to get there has many interpretations, according to our old, outdated belief system, often because of old the old adage, and hypocritical thing about, ‘my way is better than yours, and the only way’ which is the same in the end as ‘my God is better then your God, and is the only one’.

I have seen this in effect so many times, and frankly it is getting very disheartening, and a little bewildering and disappointing.

If only people did not judge each other, and accept that people may have differing views, not based on there own exacting moral and ‘Christian’ or other religious standards.

Until we get over these huge but in fact tiny barriers, we must not judge, worry or condemn others, and in what may have come out of that relationship, however sour, we must learn from, and move on.

Looking back on what could have been is a wasteful exercise.

We must forget the past and move on, and not hold grievances.

In that way, we never know, the next time we meet that person, we both may well have learnt, and perhaps get on a lot better next time.

Attractions and Personal Experience.

There is so much hurt going on, with people giving each other hard emotional lessons, particularly at this time.

People are behaving so coldly, and out of character.

That may be giving certain people the benefit of the doubt, for I also believe that people are no longer able to hide there true character, for if they are selfish and material, and of low principals, then they are showing it more and more, much like the politicians are showing there hand, these people are too.

This appears to me to be such a small section, compared to the mental, emotional and physically draining effect it had on me.

Perhaps because I am still trying to work it through, I have not really understood it yet.

If only we could read the old tablet, and read why certain people have such an effect on us, and what it is the divides us, when we obviously have such an effect on each other.

I speak from bitter experience of course.

I made a complete fool of myself.

It was a real wake up call.

So why did I do it, and behave that stupidly.

We would have the most amazing conversations, the like of which I have never experienced before.

We were at times, and this is a major condemnation of myself, a mirror of each other.

Walking Away.

Walking away can hurt, the realisation you have been used hurts, and the pure disbelief that you have allowed yourself to be so stupid hurts.

However, the lessons you will have learnt from it, is far more valuable.

Be grateful for that lesson and to that person for the lesson.

Make a clean break, make it total with no window to climb back through, and say thank you.

Above all try and leave that so obvious bitterness behind, that takes time, but it is all part of that valuable lesson.

Now you can move on, choosing your new friends more carefully with wisdom deep inside you that you will always have.

Also It taught me to look very closely at my own morals and standards, they were not by any means spiritual, and yet because our conversations were spiritual, very meaningful, the depth of which I had never encountered before, I became engrossed.

If only that closeness had been kept mental, we would still be talking and perhaps doing good work together.

Unfortunately, we are all humans with faults, human emotions and frailties, and when that close, as close as a sister and brother, but without the moral ties of that type of relationship, boundaries will be broken.

I had also ignored many, who felt very strongly about the whole thing, many mediums were warning me from day one, but I could not believe them, I was so beguiled, and infatuated.

Many friends also warned me, I was blatantly doing something very wrong in there eyes, but I just could not see it until later.

You may feel like kicking me hard here, but suffice to say, It really did hurt me to look at myself afterwards.

Remember if it does not hurt, you have not learned the lesson.

I also have to say, minds coming together at this time, are going to throw many people together who feel very strongly that they are linked.

So this lesson is very much for them.

Sometimes a very valuable relationship in our eyes, and in the eyes of spirit, can be completely ruined by the guilt feelings that we are currently riddled with.

Stability and Intelligence.

It does seem to me, that there is a correlation between intelligence, and spiritual thinking, but this does not mean that spiritual people need to be intelligent, I would flatly deny that.

What I am saying is that very intelligent people are still the ones capable of deep thinking. The problem is that intelligent people are the ones that are often good at their jobs, and have had as a result, had more training.

However training also creates restrictions to there thinking, and many scientifically minded people, are often not of the open minded types, that leads to open discussion.

They can only see so far, and it all has to make sense to them according to there teaching.

If they can’t package it and assimilate it in there minds, it can’t exist.

However, when they are forced to challenge there own belief system, this can put them into total turmoil.

This is when there frailties show up, particularly if guilt or emotions are involved, and then they can become very unstable.

I have seen good men turn into shaking, extremely nasty, unbalanced and totally unstable people.

I have had these people rant viciously at me for hours, purely venting their guilt and anger at me, when it should be at themselves.

It is the fact that they let themselves down that produces these odd feeling.

While there minds are, shall we say on other things, you will appear to them, the reason for there own failings, and there is little one can do about it.

If this happens to you let them rant, but walk away and leave well alone.

Spiritual people when faced with a sexy woman are unfortunately very easy targets and the more imbalanced and intelligent you are, it appears the easier prey they are.

Guilt and jealousy created from this, can create some very obnoxious and strange reactions, and all they seem to want to do, is cleverly stick the knife into you further and further.

This may not seem very spiritual of me, but believe it is better to walk away, as when you are hanging around, trying to remedy the situation quietly, it can only antagonise and exasperate the situation more, especially when you are the sole object of there abuse.

We are after all, not well designed to keep taking abuse, and at a certain point, we must learn to protect ourselves.

Do the lessons ever stop?, probably not.

We Close Our Eyes.

Protective Shells.

The protective shells we have built up throughout our lives, around our fragile emotions, in order to protect us from hurt, are very much in evidence in the above section.

Every time we have been hurt, another layer goes on to this shell.

They are negative energies that eating away and undermining our drive and passion.

The layers of the emotional and negative aspects of this shell has taken all our lives to build up, and they are not broken down in a day.

The hurts or layers that we received or put on in childhood are often the hardest to overcome.

If we could go back to our childhood, and think again like a child, and go back to a time when we had no fears or cares, then we could clear a lot of these layers.

These layers are energies, and if they are negative they create an imbalance, and this can and does affect our health in so many ways.

If we become overbalanced by the negatives, we tend to be negative in our outlook, we can become snappy and irritable, and generally depressed.

In some, although they seem happy, they may have a minefield, or web of energies that are blocking any progression.

They may when it comes to it, have closed there eyes, or hidden under there protective shell so much, that all appears calm.

However in so many cases, by holding back there feelings, they are simply creating a situation that will eventually blow.

We are by nature, full of expression and passion, and in relieving and expressing these passions, we are only clearing our feelings and not allowing frustrations to build up.

Protective shells are hiding the truth, not dealing with it or the problem.

There is a lot of discomfiture in unwrapping the layers of the problem, but this is essential if we are to progress our own selves.

The Intent to Change.

It takes time to even start to unpeel the layers, and a general intent is needed in order to do so, it does not happen by itself.

Let me give a reason why one should.

One often comes across the type of person that always take the positive attitude, and they seem unencumbered by problems around them, they have problems, but they seem to mysteriously to dissolve.

However we also see those, who are constantly battling against the tide, and seem to get no-where.

This is not down to good or bad luck, but positive or mental attitude.

We are all equal, and can make the choice to think positively or negatively, or to bring our own good luck, or to bring misfortune on ourselves.

It is very simple, but we can never see it as that for many reasons.

If we really believed it is all that simple, then why don’t we all start doing something about it.

We could and we should, but this requires real intent.

It is very easy to start to think positively, but while we are still clearing the problems we ourselves created, it is extraordinarily hard to keep it up, and there are always things to bring us down again.

Depression comes over us in waves, if we could see it in material form, it would appear like an electrical storm, or a black cloud consuming us.

When it hits, it is very difficult to remain positive, we change our opinion of things, and always take the bleak side of any thoughts we may have.

Depression is simply an attack on ourselves, by thinking negatively.

There are of course many other factors once depression sets in, and many other factors that bring it on, but negative thinking is the key to perpetuating it, and only the person himself can really do anything about it.

Perhaps a world of love and caring for each other, is a way, but unfortunately there is still a great deal of change to happen before that happens, so meanwhile, we can do our bit, for us and others by thinking positively.

It is vitally important to really understand this very simple concept, and to realise the benefits to ourselves and to others in carrying it out.

The more people that think positively, the better the world will become, and equally the more that take this step, the quicker the total transformation will take place in an ever increasingly rapid spiral.

 Fear of Success.

The longest hurdle is the last one.

I do not believe that there is a truer statement.

In order to complete something, this may be a project or landmark in our lives; all the pieces of the jigsaw will have to fall in place.

Our minds firstly, have to recognise the job is done, and feel happy and contented in what has been achieved in ourselves, by ourselves.

This is easier said than done.

If the project is a mental, intangible one, then we often have great difficulty in seeing it as completed, even when it is.

The closer we get to the edge of success, the harder we fight against the fears and forthcoming changes.

Equally, especially if it is a spiritual or personal goal, the more flack or tests we will receive from others as we get nearer to the end.

The main problem however, seems to be ourselves.

It is our own fear of success that is our major burden, it is the final putting into place of the bits, the actioning of it, that is our greatest downfall, and this is why so many people fail at the last minute.

This is where we need to put aside our fears, and the restrictions we place on ourselves and simply move on.

We must not fear change or the future, but we put up a real big fight to hang on to what we know.

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