Sex & the Sexes.

Sex & Magnetic Attraction.

This is always a prickly subject, but I am sure that I am not at all unusual in wanting to study it in some depth, since so much of our inner drive is driven by sexual action and reaction. 

A huge chunk of our lives is controlled by our own attraction, to and from, and most of our desires are in the end about sex.

It is never far away from our minds, but I believe more so than before as the energies seem to have changed, and men and women should be and are aware of it.

It is a very complex subject, and can ruin relationships, and lives, with so many people carrying a huge guilt burden, or enormous frustration and sometimes both.

The moral dilemma is huge already and perhaps as magnetism or attraction is changing, and the desire to be with someone we are on the same vibration with increases, this dilemma is getting worse.

I do not expect to come up with all the answers, but hopefully some of my explanations or ideas may help.

Role-playing.

Man and women have been happy playing there traditional roles for centuries, each, more or less knew there place. The man has, in our ‘recent’ memory, always been the hunter, the provider, while the woman has been the homemaker and child giver.

This has changed so much in recent years and rightly so.

Social changes have been huge in recent years, and women, quite rightly are becoming far more equal, and in some cases, are the new leaders of this gentle revolution, being more attuned and sensitive to the changes.

The changes may not sit comfortably for men in general, or perhaps some women, but there are some enlightened men out there.

The New World.

The New World will be an equal one, more mental than sexual, and this will bring with it, a strange dilemma.

Women now have the power or freedom, to choose the life they want to lead, and morals and communication have changed sufficiently to allow them to do so more freely.

This however, does not alter how they see themselves, or the inner guilt feelings that they carry over from ‘how they should behave’.

This new morality is pecking away at the feminine way of life, but it is not just the new found equality of women, there are other reasons, natural ones, why they are becoming equal and why this is coinciding with the new ‘more sensitive’ female character.

The Dilemma for Women.

Why are more and more of the new sensitive females confused and frustrated?

This new dichotomy or dilemma is caused by the changing of magnetism, as well as the change in our own, and other earthly energies and all these must be taken into account and seen as all part and parcel of the whole thing and not separated.

At a physical level, there is still in the women a need to please, a need to give themselves, a need to be ‘taken’ sexually, and of course, in turn, all these satisfies the eternal need to be loved.

These are all strong and in-built, and won’t go away.

It is a physical natural function, and if not satisfied, causes immense frustration.

That is the animal in all of us, perfectly natural, even if it is not talked about freely.

It is also a sexual release, a required energy release.

This sexual release, (energy release) is more of a ‘requirement’ or ‘need’ for the more passionate, and it is these more passionate and sensitive souls, that are also more inclined to be and are increasingly effected by the changes.

This is therefore making them more aware of there own sexuality; there own personal need for sex and gratification, and almost as a by-product creating an even larger dichotomy.

The other side of this dilemma is less about the physical, this is the part that produces this new dichotomy, is not so much about sexual release or gratification, as being a new much stronger desire to be with one that satisfies the mental side of that person.

This side of companionship, attraction, magnetism and sexual ‘oneness’ is increasingly important and will not slow down.

It is about ‘bonding’ or ‘communication’ in a different way.

This should not be confused with sex as we know it, although sex is still a strong drive within it, but more like a yearning for ‘togetherness’ that can’t be denied.

It is a compulsion and a growing realisation of the need to be with a fellow soul mate.

Again, especially if this is affecting you, we have to take into account the changes around us, because as we become more sensitive and open up more, his yearning will get stronger until we do something about it.

The people that find themselves in this position, it must be recognised are also probably aware of past lives, or there own spirituality, and recognise they have a inner ‘purpose’, even if they do not recognise that exact ‘purpose’.

This need for ‘bonding’ is made all the more compelling for this reason, they are meeting souls again that they have known before, and have an overwhelming draw, attraction or magnetism too.

They are combining together to get on with there purpose.

This is all creating a huge dichotomy, confusion and frustration.

The Male Dilemma.

This is similar in males, although females would argue that men are lagging behind.

In fact, I would be wise to keep this section shorter as most readers will be inclined to be female, but it won’t do any harm, to understand the other, and sometimes in your eyes, opposing viewpoint.

Equally, it will not do any harm for men to find out more about how women thought and are now increasingly thinking.

Certainly, men are aware their roles are changing, or are being made aware from seeing the female’s change and are realising the effect is almost being forced on them.

It is after all often too difficult to hide, and a shade too obvious in some partners not to notice.

Men probably will not accept this change readily, for the strong feelings of pride, possessiveness and jealousy, are difficult to shake overnight and it will take more than a little patience to understand it, or to accept it.

We are not just talking about a small change, but something fundamental, in both sexes thinking and eventual actions, but it will show particularly at first in those of women, simply because of there nature.

Men will, as women look for like-minded partners, feel unstable, insecure and vulnerable for a while, until they see the benefits of it themselves.

If this is all painting a bleak picture, it is not at all.

The harmony of the new vibrations and magnetic changes will soothe most of the difficulties away, but that can be difficult to comprehend when faced with forced change.

Yes there will be sacrifices, and they may seem huge currently with our current values, but they are small compared with the benefits that we ourselves will gain, but if only we could trust and see that as clearly as we will in hindsight.

So what is sex and the need for sex about? 

We are after all, electrical or energy controlled beings, so it is not surprising that sex and attraction, can create and sometimes dispel energy, very powerful energies.

We could look at it as an enormous build up of static, which we need to release from time to time.

A good ‘session’ can relieve all sorts of tension and frustration, at least in the short term, and this is often an electrical energy, caused by other emotions.

Naturally, the more we think about sex, will determine how regularly it needs to be released.

Thought is indeed a powerful energy, so it naturally follows that since we think about sex so much, the energies are powerful, but is it just that...of course not.

It is not all about static, but mental or electrical energies of one sort or another.

Every part of our body is controlled by energy; we are a string of interwoven, co-existing energies.

Our bodies are built to re-produce, and therefore the energy centres around the sexual organs are deliberately numerous, with an abundance of nerves.

To coincide with this, sex is naturally an enormous drive mentally, it is one where nearly all our emotions are involved, and these are all are part of the basic human, and designed for survival, the strongest instinct of all.

There never was ‘one’ type of sex, one type alone could not possibly satisfy all those emotions and desires or physical likes and dislikes, but there appears to be a new and very powerful type.

Previously they could always be divided into lovemaking with the intimacy of sharing and straight animal desire or need of release (physical sex) but now, there is an even stronger inner impulse about, which will naturally get stronger.

Morals.

The animal desire will not go away, just yet, and while we continue to think as humans, it won’t and can’t.

However, we are, beginning to think differently, and morals and values will be sorely tested before this change can take true effect.

This new effect is creating an extraordinary compulsion, and will destroy the normality of many otherwise secure relationships but it is nobody’s fault and should not be condemned out of hand.

It should be understood that these ‘souls’ are probably the more enlightened and giving amongst us, and that is a symptom of their new awareness, and is not selfish in itself.

It should be understood that they are probably suffering in their turmoil of change, with their own guilt and unstable feelings.

Morals will be tested, but what are these ‘set’ morals anyway? and who made them ?, weren’t they a product of society and later religion after all, and therefore designed to control mankind.

The morals that matter, in the end, will be those made from truth, truth to oneself, being honest with yourself, one’s SELF.

Only that soul itself, can decide on his or her own morals, and decide what is good for them.

Morals should not be judged by others.

What gives us the right to decide for others what is right for them or wrong, certainly not religious leaders.

Morals are a moving beast, and our perceptions of sex, and its physical and mental role will I believe, have to alter drastically.

Who will be the most effected?

The most affected will be those that are already more aware, the more spiritual, for they are the ones that are realising and feeling this new influence of the magnetic vibrations most acutely.

They will be the most passionate of souls anyway, naturally so, and because passion is closely related to sex, it is probable that reason they will be the most sexually aware and open-minded.

This has tended to be females in the past, but men are, perhaps because the are being forced to understand the change in there partners, catching up quickly.

The women will bring the men on quickly.

Having said that, this is a quiet gentle revolution that will undermine mans authority, and basic animal instincts, the idea of total equality between the sexes will not be easy for man.

But this is where we are heading, and the resulting understanding and knowledge that will surface will lead to a better understanding of unconditional love.

Equally for women, family values will alter for these ‘new’ women, and as this is a new and complex problem for them, both sexes will have their problems in readjusting.

The Energy of Sex.

For the women, the act of mating has always been very significant, and creates an important ‘mental’ link and closeness to the partner, to the male however, it is often seen as just a notch on the bed-post, often to satisfy pride and their instinct of survival.

Bonding has always been an important part of a relationship for the female, but it is taking on a different importance now.

The ‘mind’ energy is stronger, the thought processes are becoming different, and the bond, if with the right person, or persons, can be overwhelming and all consuming.

The electricity, magnetism and attraction can be truly dynamic, and seemingly without any logical reason.

It is logical, if one considers that this a bringing together of ‘old souls’ who have often lived, many lives together before.

It is a recognition, of a like mind at the very least, and often a reunion of minds that have worked in close harmony before, and are to do so again.

The eventual outcome may mean that they do not work together this time, perhaps because one or the other did not trust enough, or this was just a re-awakening of those senses.

However there may still be a strong spiritual link between them as there overall purpose will be the same.

The Reunion.

The sexual process is part of that reunion, the attraction is so strong that it can’t normally be avoided, and why should it be.

All vibrations may not at first feel right, because of miss-trust of the situation, but it is an in-built knowledge that we often try to fight, but will not go away however difficult and hard the obstacles in it’s way ‘appear’ to be.

They only ‘appear’ difficult simply because we can’t shake of this material life as we know it, and can’t really perceive real trust and harmony.

We see it as a walk into the unknown, and we all fear the unknown, and still find it difficult to shake of what we know and feel comfortable with, be it concerning the material, social or family.

If only we realised what we are missing we would take that leap of faith happily.

If we took that leap of faith, the ‘harmony’ that comes with it would help clear all paths.

Nobody would in the end be hurt, and we would all be in the right place, and with the right ‘partner with the right polarity energy’ to get on with whatever purpose we set ourselves.

This purpose we all inwardly now, but will not see the true meaning or direction of that purpose until we are ready and prepared to go about it and ‘trust’ enough in it.

Preparation.

In order to be ready to receive and ‘trust’ enough, we often, as individuals need to find our ‘Self’s’ and this may often mean a period in relative isolation away from close relationships.

This will be hard for many, as often, we will have had to give up a lot.

But what actually did we give up ?

Often we will have given others their freedom, although they may not have seen it that way at first.

Often we will have given up comfortable closeted lives and social friends that meant a lot, and of course materialism.

But is a comfortable closeted life you think you want, your soul is telling you it is not.

Do you want social friends that do not understand ‘fully’ the way you think, your soul again is telling you no, that is not what you want and that they may be holding you back.

Is materialism what you want ?, the answer again is an obvious, No.

Materialism has no place in the future, it is just the fear of losing it that keeps us clinging onto it.

None of the above are important, but we find it difficult to comprehend that, again through lack of trust.

Spiritual Bonding.

We are, or most of us are, a long way off from spiritual ‘bonding’, as we can’t shake off the physical and animal desires in us all, and can’t comprehend how one can replace the other, easily.

It does not need to, but there will be change and the mind has to fully understand the wishes of the other or partner first, and to be wise enough to grant them what they want, or need to go through.

Cage a bird, and as soon as the door is opened, it will fly off.

Give a bird freedom to fly, and show it unconditional love, and it will return and give back that love, and gain from your understanding.

The World is a different place, breathe in the air, feel the change in the way people are thinking, feel the way magnetism, attraction is changing, and feel the new vibrations of energy.

Females are changing, and men too, and with it there roles, and are the looking now for the more spiritual soul, even if they do not fully recognise the fact themselves.

There is a build up of new energies all around us, the polarities are combining, and getting closer.

We are closer to harmony than ever before, and it will only increase.

Sex is becoming ‘spiritual’, although it may not seem like it, as the conflict between the animal and spiritual, produces guilt and others useless burdens.

However we are getting there.

‘Physical relationships’ verses the ‘Mentally compatible’.

We are realising that the physical is a requirement, a need that should be satisfied, but the mental and spiritual ‘Self’ and attraction to others, is far, far, more significant and all compelling, and ultimately can’t be denied.

The physical is like letting of steam and a release of frustration and once let off it is no longer required until the next time.

It is quickly forgotten once satisfied, and relationships built on the physical alone, are meaningless in the end.

Count them up and see how many you remember, then diagnose the physical ones and compare them with the effect the mentally compatible ones meant to you.

The mental and spiritual, is always there and always will be, and if not satisfied creates that inner frustration within us that is holding us back.

The mental and spiritual is the real ‘US’ the real ‘SELF’ and will always win in the end.

We are in a World of change, and changing quickly, and the quicker we trust the less arduous our personal challenge will be and the quicker our true fulfillment will come.

Many Factors.

There is not just one factor creating this change, there are many, they are all coinciding and working simultaneously together.

You can not look at the change in sex, in or out of relationships in isolation, but must consider all the changes, to really understand the full picture.

The fact that the environment is in a terrible state at this time, is no accident, it is a major part of the reason for change, so are the precipitous social problems, and enormous inequality in the world’s standards of living.

There is so much wrong, and we can not go further downhill.

We had to learn and see our mistakes, before deciding what is wrong, and we have.

We have learnt, and you must agree, that people are changing it.

This is what it is about, learning to live and understand this planet more, and to learn to live in harmony with it and all it’s wonderful, but complex natural forces.

Water and Hormonal Changes.

I would like to make a point here, which I believe is relevant as it is coinciding, albeit in a physical way and not a mental way, with other magnetic changes and that is about the state of the water we are supplied with.

Even in the most sophisticated countries, there is a problem with water, not from lack of it, but from the quality of it.

Where I live, the water on average, has passed through 11 people.

Those 11 people are from both sexes, and will probably be taking a variety of hormones, from the pill, to other drugs and chemicals. These are not removed in the cleaning process, so if I drink straight from the tap I must accept there are hormones and drugs still in the water, which of course there are.

Over time, I believe logically, this must have an effect on our own chemistry and sexuality.

Many men must be affected, and will start, or already are, to show increasing signs of feminine behaviour, this will also affect women.

Some chemicals will not break down, even over a long period of time, 100 years or so, and in the states there is a lake that has had DDT and other chemicals have seeped into it for years that also contains alligators.

These alligators have undergone worrying sex changes, with some having both sexual organs.

As I write this, there is tension, and nearly war between two so called civilised countries, over a stretch of land rich with water. Water is highly important in many ways and is becoming more important than oil, at least people are recognizing it a last.

A Gloomy Picture Still.

No, it is all good in the end.

Yes, we fear change and therefore don’t like it, but the changes are good, and the problems, (once we decide to act on our own intuition or inner feelings), will disintegrate and we will all be surprised how much we can achieve, even at a personal level, and at last stop doubting everything.

Trust is the keyword. Trust in yourself, your intuition, your own ‘SELF’.

Gene choicing.

Natural gene choicing is becoming more of a significant factor, it is simply the attraction caused by genes to magnetise towards each other.

This is taking on a new momentum, and is becoming more about the seeking of attraction according to one’s basic job, motivation and intent purpose.

The appearance is very similar to that of peas in a pod with the ‘attracted’ genes rattling around, continuously getting closer, while differences are reconciled.

This is all coinciding with the natural forces outside of there control as there intent comes into the right ‘time band’ and of course the changes going on in each of them.

While this is happening, many outsiders, may be looking in on a strange situation, wondering what all the fuss is about.

Family values.

There has been so much said about the importance of family values, and it is these moral values, that ring so true.

Of course they are important, of course families should be kept together, and of course loving ones own is the right thing to do.

We all know that in our hearts.

Any suffering should be avoided, if at all possible.

These values should be prized, and welcomed.

And if we reject them, we only torment ourselves.

We are however, living in exceptional times.

There are values, even above those.

Our whole concept of love is changing.

Changing frequencies and magnetic attraction, the emergence of the importance of past lives, changing senses of purpose, discord and frustration of a new type, are all playing a part in this new world.

When the time is right, and all things are in place, if changes in relationships need or feel they have to be made, they will be, and nobody should get hurt.

The sense of love overall, should prevail.

All things will slot into place, as much as this appears impossible to many of us now, there will be a reshuffling of the pack.

But it will be a glorious one, and not a hurtful one, to anyone.

I have spoken before of the immense confusion and frustration in relationships, that is increasingly emerging, and currently people are getting hurt, but this is only because we do not see the bigger picture, and we are all impatient.

If only we could be more patient, and to learn to trust more, then the current pain and suffering, would be less tormenting and traumatic.

But in terms of the heart, that is all so difficult to do.

We are and increasingly being stripped of Ego, jealousy, control, possession, material want and other negative factors.

Once these negative factors have gone, and we all see the sense in helping each other, and all will make so much sense.

The importance of being with the one you are truly in tune with will be paramount.

Sometimes, we are seeing this in people already, but while changes are still going on, in everyone, and until all the negative factors have been replaced, by positive ones, we will just have to learn to be patient.

We should all be happy, and will be.

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